For load order just place it after Forgotten magic Redone obviously, otherwise it doesn't matter at all, including for Ordinator. Also note that while this patch is named FMR Ordinator patch it doesn't actually require Ordinator and can be used with other skill overhauls that don't have their own FMR patch (like PerMa has already), or even with vanilla Skyrim perk system, but the only thing it will do then is enable the Furious Flames etc effects, and if another skill mod uses a completely different elemental enhancement destruction perk system it might not do a thing. What I did not do was make the Warlock and Druid poison and disease spells Restoration spells as they should be, I tried but it's beyond my knowledge, so making the elemental spells work with elemental perks is all this patch does. The main purpose of this patch is to attach the keywords to various elemental spells so Ordinator's elemental destruction perks will still work fine with them, meaning for example when you hit someone with a Phoenix charge and it sets the ground on fire, it might set off a Cataclysm and also send them flying. Okay, here's a patch I made for Forgotten Magic redone (the Oldrim version I don't have Newrim installed so I can't check it but as long as the esp is still named 'ForgottenMagic_Redone.esp' and no spells were changed then this patch should still work).

Skyrim forgotten magic redone